Making someone fall in love is not the easiest part of a relationship, but holding on to it. To make a relationship work takes lot of efforts and understanding between the two. If one is very emotional, the other needs to be totally opposite, that is strong. This means that the two people in a relationship needs to be opposite of each other, so that if one can not do something, the other can help him out. If you are able to find that one such person, nothing could be more better than that.
The best way to show your boyfriend that you care for him is to make him feel happy and blessed being with you, every now and then. You should show him how important he is in your life, how he has changed you for good and how his one look still gets you butterflies.
If you still have some questions or doubts, here are some tips that will help you.
1. Be supportive
It is easy for a tomboyish girl to get along with a guy. But if you are a girly one, you must have found it difficult to adjust with your man. There could have been times when you started fighting over if he should spend time with you or go out to see football match. But don’t you think its a lot of pressure to put on him? It will surely take a while adjusting according to him. Just give him a smile when he says he’s off to do the things that make him happy, and eventually things will work out.
2. Give him space
Love is all about knowing when the person is sad and what could make him feel better. Finding a good guy is as difficult as holding on to him. To keep things cool in a relationship, one needs to understand that everyone requires his/her space and one should respect that. Learn to schedule your alone time as separateness is a good thing! Give space to yourself and your partner.
3. Compliment him
From where did we get the notion that only women like to receive compliments? You always seek validation from your boyfriend for how you look each day. But did it ever occur to you that he would also appreciate hearing things about him? So from now on think about him as well. Tell him that he looks hot in that particular shirt, tell him that you love his humor, tell him the good stuff when it occurs to you.
4. Engage in a conversation
It is a common habit or just addiction, to carry your phone wherever you go, or keep it on your desk while doing work. Phones are a great hindrance in a relationship. It keeps you from social environment. So set the phone down and see the man in front of you. Be in the moment when you’re with the person you love. Engage in a conversation and try not to let the moment slip away from you!
5. Get him something
Don’t rely on just movies to teach you about love. This creates a stereotypical image that only boys should make swoony declarations. Instead, you yourself can show how much you love and care for him. Express your love to your guy whenever you can. Buy things for him too when you go out for shopping. It doesn’t matter if that thing is something he likes or not, but at least he will feel special.
6. Understand him
It doesn’t matter if you’re married or newly committed, if you have got the perfect man of your dreams, he deserve to feel the same as he makes you feel. Be more caring, loving, appreciating and understanding. When you’re angry at him, instead of bursting out try to know why he behaved in that way. Most of the relationships don’t work out because of lack of understanding. When ever something like that happens, don’t say a word, try keeping yourself calm and ask him why he did that when things cool down.
7. Have confidence on him
Relationships are hard work, and require effort from both parties. Trust is the basis of that relationship. No boyfriend, girlfriend, or anyone else could be truly happy if they don’t feel like they are trusted. Being honest, even when it is difficult, is one of the best ways to show that you trust them. The truth does hurt sometimes, and it may cause him distress but beneath that pain will be an appreciation that you trusted him enough to be honest with him.
These are the few simple ways to keep your guy happy.